Revenge

Everyone has someone they hate or really really dislike.  It's only human.  People get bullied and pushed around and sometimes it is even by people who are supppose to love them.  Whatever the reason, it still hurts.  If someone I love yells at me or does something hurtful, I get this pain deep in my chest.  When I was little I figured it was my heart breaking.  As juvenile as that seems, I still feel the same way about it.  When people think of magick or spells they immediately jump to Harry Potter and media made ideas of what magick is.  I am sure we all have wanted to turn someone into a rat, but that's just not going to happen.  In all seriousness, harming others is against what Wicca is about.  I know there are people who deserve to get the bad end of the stick but leaving that to karma is the best way to handle the situation.  When you send out negative energy, you are still able to be hurt by it as well.  I always consider the The Rule of Three.  Getting all of that negative power back times three isn't worth it.  Even doing curses is not smart. There is no such thing as "little" or "small" curses because the energy is still out there.

Avoiding wishing harm on people is not always easy.  Like I said, we are only human.  Everyone has different situations.  Having an abusive (emotionally or physically) significant other, being bullied, being taken advantage of, not being apppreciated, or just being put down on any level can cause you to want to wish bad things on someone. So many things seem just for taking karma into your own hands, but there is no good reason.  A good bit of the time I don't want to be the better person. Hell, sometimes I have hoped people walk into traffic.  But thinking or saying things like this put even more bad energy out.  A double negative does not make a positive because this is definately not math.  Instead of harboring thoughts like that, relax, meditate, and think about the good in your life.  Life is stressful and those crappy challenges make everything worthwhile because it shows you as a strong person.  I know meditating at work when some punk trys to make your life hell seems like an impossible joke.  But stop and take a minute because you got this. Just send our your positive energy and it'll come back when you need it.